kahwin waktu blaja VS kahwin waktu kerja

HMMMM....wat do u guys think? which one will give the most benefits?
ok 1st..i agree with kahwin waktu blaja..maybe coz khwin waktu blaja = kahwin awal..it gives benefit sbb when we get pregnant time blaja, it could help to stimulate our baby's brain..sbb kte tgh blaja kn..so baby pun indirectly blaja jugak..and maybe we could spent more time with anak2..coz xbz as bila kerja nnti..and get pregnant early is good..especially when you want to have many kids..sbb..our age wont reach 35++ kot..of koz we want many kids sbb nak lahirkan pejuang islam..remember?..soo..if kawen lambat..den planning nak anak ramai x selari dgn umur..and den..tuhan kata..perempuan yang diberkati ada 3 ciri2 which is
1. perempuan yg awal perkahwinannya
2. perempuan yang awal mendapat anak
3. perempuan yang ringan maharnya
soo insyaAllah..kte akan diberkati..
PLUS, kawen awal dpt elakkan seseorg tu drpd melakukan maksiat..drpd terpesong drpd landasan sebenar..seresly..sumtymes a gurl need a guide from the man to lead her to the right path..and marriage is the best solution..(for me)
the disadvantage is that..takut2 we're not prepared or ready..but actually..alam perkahwinan ni la yg bantu kte mengenali hidup..to be more matured..n klo kte ssh sme susah n senang sme senang dgn suami..byk dugaan kte harungi sme2..tu lagi merapatkan hubungan kte dgn suami..confirm la ada ups and downs ble kahwin kn?so apa slhnya..
2nd is maybe not ready financially..but if we think it back..ramai je parents yg kawen awal..n they can manage it..if they can do it..y not us? klo kte berpegang kpd ajaran allah..insyaAllah kte akan selamat..tuhan akan tolong juga..SERES..we just have to have faith in Him..
3rd.maybe org kata xdpt nak enjoy life..xdpt njoy being a single woman,no responsibility..but..x enjoy ke ble dh kawen? xnjoy ke ble dah ada anak?is it a burden to have a husband and children? if its a burden, tuhan xkn kurniakan tu sume..kn?tuhan xkn suruh kte kahwin and ada anak..actualy ble ada anak tu la rezeki turun melimpah ruah..
hmm..xtau dh nk ckp ape..but i think kawen awal is OK..ble kte pregnant, lahirkan anak, kte dpt hapuskan dosa2 kecill..n pahala byk dpt kpd isteri yg setia kpd suami..bg senyuman ikhlas kt suami pun dh dpt pahala..senang kn? kre..klo pompuan tu dh kawen, hati die insyaAllah jdi bersih sbb dpt byk pahala n hapuskan dosa2 kecil....n ble hati bersih, ilmu sng masuk..xke ini dpt tolong seorng pompuan tu utk berjaya academically..?
ntahlaa..this is what i think..but IT IS a BIG RESPONSIBILITY though..i know..but im prepared..
A.M.